I RESOLVE

I've made up my mind...

As we approach the midway point of the 2012 calender year, I felt it necessary to prompt a reassessment of any goals, resolutions and/or aspirations that were made at the beginning of the year.  We have a tendency to get busy with life or get too tired when challenges arise which normally forces us to put any positive changes we'd like to make on hold.  Well, I'm here to remind and rejuvenate any of those resolutions so that you can make the latter part of the year better than the former.  Here we go...

I Resolve....

I will make positive changes to my personality/character: This resolution is normally the hardest because we don't like to look within ourselves... people do that enough for us.  Because the world is so judgmental it is often increasingly difficult to then judge ourselves.  But I encourage you to do it, if necessary.  If you are willing to take a healthy critical eye to yourself and resolve to make positive changes, you'll be a better person for it.  I personally have been working on the manner in which I talk to people.  I struggle with tone and volume, especially when I'm excited and/or upset, and as I step into a new season of my life, I have resolved to make changes as I want to be known for the CONTENT that comes out of my mouth, not HOW it comes out of my mouth.  Also, I have resolved to not let how I feel determine my day.  Even if I'm tried or frustrated, I have resolved to be at peace and joyful.

I will forgive and let it go:  This is a VERY important one because any relationship that you are invested in, whether it is with family, friends or a partner, leaves you open to getting hurt or disappointed.  It is inevitable.  Similarly to how it is inevitable that you will also hurt and disappoint others.  No one is perfect and we ALL make mistakes.  As hard as we try to be the best we can be, we have to acknowledge that our best isn't necessarily the same 'best' that your friend, family or partner sees... and vice versa.  We have to treat people as we want to be treated, 'judge' people by the same standard we 'judge' ourselves and believe the best in others.  Its easy to be critical and begrudging to others... but how do you like it when people do it to you?

I will Live on Purpose:  Bishop T.D. Jakes has a phenomenal CD/DVD teaching resource available on his website www.tdjakes.org that encourages you to do just that: Live on Purpose.  To wake up everyday like you mean it.  To deal with people everyday like Jesus is coming by nightfall.  Live you life depends solely on your goals, dreams and aspirations.  Challenges will arise, road blocks will form and doubts will surface... but don't give up.  Focus on what you have been called to do (that nagging that remains consistent in your heart) and keep moving forward.  

I will seek His Kingdom FIRST(and His Righteousness)... and ALL good things will be added unto me (Matthew 6:33): I used to struggle with this scripture as I didn't quite understand where His Kingdom was.  My inexperience (and ignorance) had me looking for the Kingdom in the physical realm and brought me to a place of resentment and dissatisfaction with the church and other 'religious' entities.  I couldn't feel the connection.  I finally came to understand, by God's grace and wisdom, that the Kingdom is in me and if I want to reach my full potential and purpose in life, I had to start there.  In essence, seeking the Kingdom and His Righteousness means striving to be Christ-like, standing on His Word, trusting in Him completely and being a reflection of His joy, peace, mercy, forgiveness, grace and love.  This is what it means to seek the Kingdom.  And through striving and accomplishing such Righteousness, it will then shine through in everything you do... how you interact with your family, your friends, co-workers, neighbours, ENEMIES, in your business, your dreams and aspirations.  This is the foundation of 'all the good things' that will be added unto you.  Therefore, if you feel that you are not receiving, enjoying or obtaining 'all the good things', reassess who, what and how you are 'seeking the Kingdom' and whether you are willing to make the necessary changes IN YOU.

Living a life for Christ is a steadfast business.  It is not easy... unless you are willing to let go of yourself and the world.  It is only difficult when you make it difficult by trying to live in both worlds... being a Christian but harbouring unforgiveness, wanting to get but rarely giving, wanting love but not receiving love from the Creator.  We have to resolve to do better because we know better.  

Be Blessed TO DO BETTER

THE BEATITUDES

 

Blessed are the poor in spirit, 

for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. 

Blessed are they who mourn, 

for they shall be comforted. 

Blessed are the meek, 

for they shall inherit the earth. 

Blessed are they who hunger and thirst for righteousness, 

for they shall be satisfied. 

Blessed are the merciful, 

for they shall obtain mercy. 

Blessed are the pure of heart, 

for they shall see God. 

Blessed are the peacemakers, 

for they shall be called children of God. 

Blessed are they who are persecuted for the sake of righteousness, 

for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

- Matthew 5:3-10